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Stay single until you find someone who doesn’t want to play games, someone who knows what they want. Someone who will tell you how they feel, someone who won’t be scared to be vulnerable with you. Someone who doesn’t use excuses about confusion and not wanting labels and seeing where things go’, stay single until you find someone who knows what a beautiful, magical person you are, someone who knows an amazing thing when it’s in front of them. Someone who doesn’t want to risk losing you, someone who is certain from the beginning.

Stay single until it feels easy, simple, like breathing. Stay single until you don’t have to constantly remind someone how to be better or how to treat you right. Stay single until you find someone who understands your love language and will do their best to learn it, who is willing to make compromíses, who wants to make sure you are both understood and appreciated. Stay single until you find someone who would do anything to make you feel loved and heard.

Stay single until you find someone who doesn’t run at the first sign of trouble, someone who doesn’t disappear after the first argument no matter how big or small it might be. Find someone who won’t ignore you when things turn sour. Someone who will stay up late into the night with you to fix it and find a solution, someone who will never let you go to sleep feeling upset or worried about your future together. Stay single until you find someone who knows that disagreements are bound to happen but that what you have for each other is stronger than that. Someone who values you more than being right or “winning”.

Stay single until love feels exactly like this.

Beware

Beware of looking for goals: Look for a way of life

Every man is the total of his reactions to experience. As your experiences differ and multiply, you become a different man, and hence your perspective changes. This goes on and on… So it would seem foolish, would it not, to adjust our lives to the demands of a goal we see from a different angle every day?

How could we ever hope to accomplish anything? The answer, then must not deal with goals at all. We do not strive to be firemen, nor managers, nor doctors. WE STRIVE TO BE OURSELVES. But don’t misunderstand me. I don’t mean that we can’t BE doctors, bankers, or XYZ… but that we must make the goal conform to the individual, rather than make the individual conform to the goal.

Beware of looking for goals: look for a way of life.

Decide how you want to live and then see what you can do to make a living WITHIN that way of life.

♐ Sagi

I turn 29 year old

• I‘ve been on this earth for nearly 29 yrs.

• Being in a city like Delhi, where there are building’s that measure their age by the millennia, help’s put that brief blinks of the eye into perspective.

• But still, it amazes me that I’ve been around that long – I feel like I’ve barely begun.

• I’m not usually one to make a big deal about my age, but as always, it has given me an opportunity to reflect.

• I had made many mistake in my life.

• I thought I’d share a handful of lessons I’ve learned…..

• Human we always swallow our pride to say I’m sorry. Being too proud to apologise is never worth it. Your relationship suffers for no good benefit.
• Possessions ( things ) are worse than worthless, they’re harmful. As they add no value to your life, and cost you everything. Not just the money required to buy them, but the time and money spent shopping for them, worrying about them, insuring them… We will go without them from this world.
• Slow down. Rushing is rarely worth it. Life is better enjoyed at a leisurely pace live for the moment in which you are.
• All says one’s should have Goals in there life. Goals aren’t as important as we think. Try working without them for a week. Turns out we can do amazing things without goals. And we don’t have to manage them. We’re less stressed without goals, and we’re free to choose paths we couldn’t have foreseen without them.
• The moment is all there is. All our worries and plans about the future, all our replaying of things that happened in the past. It’s all in our heads, and it just distracts us from fully living right now. Let go of all that, and just focus on what you’re doing, right at this moment.
• Give your full attention to your love. Always grant it. Be grateful for the reminder to spend time with someone you love.
• Don’t ever go into dept. They cause more headache. Spend less than you earn, go without until you have the money.
• I’m not so cool, and I’m cool with that… I wasted a lot of energy when I was younger worrying about being cool. It’s way more fun to forget about that, and just be yourself.
• That’s it… But it’s not the end. I’ll keep adding all my lessons 😇
• Never send an email or message that’s unfit for the eye of the world. In this age you never know what might slip into public view.
• Always be an example. You can’t motivate people. Somewhere it does happen but not fully so, the best you can hope for is to inspire them with your actions. Not with your words.
• Don’t follow the line. If you find yourself swimming with all the other fish, (people) go the other way. They don’t know where they’re going either.
• You will miss a ton, but that’s okay. We’re so caught up in trying to do everything, experience all the essential things, not miss out on anything important that we forget the simple fact that we cannot experience everything. This is reality we’ll miss most things. We can’t read all the good books, watch all the films, try all the restaurants. Here’s the secret is – life is better when we don’t try to do everything. Learn to enjoy the slice of life you experience, and life turns out to be wonderful.
• Mistakes are the best way to learn. I did many… Don’t be afraid to make them. Try not to repeat the same mistakes.
• Failures are the stepping stones to success without failure, we’ll never learn how to succeed. It’s very true.
• Rest is more important than you think people work too hard, forget to rest, and then begin to hate their jobs. People who try to do too much because they don’t know that rest is where their body gets stronger, after the stress.
• Fitness doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a long process, something that happens in little bits over a long period.
• A good walk cures most problems. So, walk and your head gets clear.
• Let go of expectations. Never expected any expectations from anyone.
• Giving is so much better then getting. Give with no expectation of getting something in return, and it becomes a purer more beautiful act.
• Gratitude, because we don’t realise how much we have instead of focusing on what we don’t have, be grateful for the amazing gifts you’ve been given : loved one’s, your health ,the gift of nature, beauty and the ability to create, and everything in between. Be grateful every day.
• Pity for other living things is more important than pleasure. We human can be perfectly healthy on a vegan diet, so killing and torturing animals is absolutely unnecessary. Taste buds change. I thought I could never give up meat, but by doing it slowly and I’m loving it.
• Don’t sit too much it kills you. Move, dance, run , play…
• Invest and it will grow. Live on little, don’t get into debt, save all you can watch your money grow.
• Learn the art of Empathy. Too often we judge people on to little information. We must try to understand, put ourselves in their shoes. Life becomes much better if you learn this art.
• Learn to say NO.. say no when you must.
• Be always the helping hand not only for your dear one’s but also toward the society,people’s out there. I know most will take advantage of this but still do what your heart says and be a human where in which other human can count on.
• Love your planet🌍 preserve it. This is your home. Don’t pollute it. Think twice
• Get married to a man who’s okay with the thought of adopting a child. Think twice.
• Happiness is not about getting what you like. Happiness has a lot to do with liking what you get.
• We are so busy trying to get what we like, that we forget to like what we get.
• Don’t trust the words… There action ll give you a better picture. Don’t get hurt if the person doesn’t came out what they have portrait.

Well, I have a lot left to learn. If I’ve learned anything, it’s that I know almost nothing, and life has many lessons left to teach me, and I’m looking forward to them all.

♐

Pooja Dhapola

Choose Yourself

Tonight it’s all about you. What is it that you really want? You’ve given everything you’ve got and then some for love. For someone you care about but they’ve done nothing but show you over and over again that you’re dispensable. And that hurts. That really hurts coming from someone you adore…

So tonight, you’ve to make a decision. Right here and now—that you’ll choose yourself from now on….

You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending…..

🙏

Goodbye

Nothing scares me, More than attachments So many lifetimes, So many stories, So many oceans crossed Still never got used to goodbyes And I still fear not hearing Familiar voices. They tell me About this Eternal home and togetherness. Yet a big part of me hates belonging and then uprooting.

How do you heal a wound you cannot see.through faith, I guess 💫

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Karma

The law of Karma “What Goes Around Comes Around.” 💫 Or, “As you sow, so shall you reap.” used to say that if someone treats other people badly he or she will eventually be treated badly by someone else. Ironically, the biggest threat to a human being is another human being.

Human beings are blessed with language. It is a gift that enables us to clearly express, their thoughts, ideas and emotions. But the irony is that despite this power, the acute lack of understanding between them, will not be found in mute animals. Pretension is a purely human trait. When others do it, people call it HYPOCRISY. And when they do it themselves, they call it worldliness. So all I can say is that we are very worldly people.

Why do human beings forget to tell each other things when they are together..? Why is it, that they always remember the unsaid things when someone is gone…?? Why does the right thing only come to them when it’s too late….??? RIP.SSR 🌷

His last post #sushantsinghrajput .. Blurred past evaporating from teardrops
Unending dreams carving an arc of smile
And a fleeting life,
negotiating between the two…
#माँ ❤️

Ikigai ( Reason for Being )

The thing you like doing,

The thing you’re good at,

That can help you earn a living,

That helps you give society what they need.

When they are all one, that’s your Ikigai.

……………………..

Chasing the Stars, I strayed so far far from where my dreams were waiting.I lost my mind trying to find not caring what my heart was saying.

I regret all that I put you through. I had to do what I had to do. Before I found my way back home…. back to me..

And I think you understand it too. That I had to do what I had to do for I found my way back home. Back to me

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Trust Your Instinct

We should be strong enough to understand that, to have that vision. Strong enough or use instinct.

When we have needs, wanted love Or change Or we are too ambitious SO then we suppress those instincts.

Like the more times we hear a lie.. The first time you hear a lie, your instinct is working telling you it sounds like a lie. And if you don’t listen to your instincts and distance yourself from that lie and you kept listening to that lie. Then soon that lie will start sounding true.

Instinct is the Queen, Courage is the King.

So, courage is the game changer and that is what will give you boldness. If you show courage once in life, then you will do so for the rest of your life. And this world is only for the courageous.
Sagi♐

Words

Words! They are all around me! I see them. I use them. Harsh words, soothing words, biting words; words that give pain and sorrow; words that give joy and pleasure. They are vital to communication. When words are spoken there are reactions, negative or positive. Either thoughts are triggered or emotions fired or actions performed.

Words colour our behaviour. And how lovely it is to hear words that are calm and free from rancour and aggression. To hear words that lift the soul and leave it with renewed vigour. Such words are the sparks of purity.

It is important to remember that my speech indicates what is in my mind. As the thinking, so the words uttered. Mental calmness makes my words calm. A pure mind makes for pure words. It is said that speech may exalt someone to kingship or send him to the gallows.

I should never let myself indulge in false, bitter and vicious speech. My words should reflect my true, inner nature, that of purity and peace. Words, once spoken, can never be recalled. They reverberate all around, beyond our control. Today, as I utter words, what effect will they have on those who hear them? Will they be the words that are poisonous and cause pain? Or will my tongue be like that of the nightingale, sweet and so, so very soothing and lovely to the ear?

Nothing belongs to me.

The little experience of life I’ve had has taught me that no one owns anything, that everything is an illusion and that applies to material as well as spiritual things.

Anyone who has lost something they thought was their forever comes to realise that nothing really belongs to them. And if nothing belongs to me, then there’s no point wasting my time looking after things that aren’t mine.

It’s best to live as if today were the first or last day of my life.